So, what’s it really like to be bi and date both men and women? Are there huge differences or surprising similarities?
We looked at Reddit to learn the experiences of bisexual men and women in terms of dating each gender. What’s surprising is how broad the experiences of each person talking about dating as a bisexual are.
1. Portarossa likes a soft touch.
Women are softer, physically — not just with regards to, you know, boobs and stuff, but also just their skin in general. All that moisturising pays off. All you want to do is touch ’em.
I once dated a guy who naturally had absurdly soft skin, and it was weird but extremely pleasant.
2. Portarossa also calls out the dudes.
Men dating bisexual women are a lot more likely to ask for a threesome.
3. GreatAndPowerfulNixy sets forth the shocking notion that guys want to get laid.
Hello, I’m a bisexual man.
The biggest difference I’ve noticed is how forward you can be with sex right from the get-go. Dating and sex with a woman is a fucking dance, testing the waters to see how far you’re allowed to go. Dating and sex with a man is usually “do you have a cock? Alright, let’s get that shit in me ASAP homie”.
4. LynxaBane puts it all on the table.
As a bisexual female this is what I’ve noticed.
Dating a Lesbian: The lesbian I was dating at the time pretty much wanted me to “forget” I also liked men and wanted me to be 100% into women all the time. It was unrealistic to say the least. I couldn’t comment on actors or men in public yet if I said anything about another female it was all good.
Dating a Bisexual Woman: Pretty standard relationship was fun to talk about people we found attractive etc. Very experimental in the bedroom.
Dating a Straight man: Asked for threesomes alot but when I actually went to plan it, backed out. Not all that experimental in the room. Got SUPER turned on by the idea of me with another woman and SUPER jealous at the thought of another dude.
Dating a Bisexual Man: Pretty close to dating the Bisexual woman, just now the penis isn’t made from silicone and there’s no boobs 🙁
Something I learned overall: Every relationship people think because you play for both teams you are more likely to leave because you have double the options.
5. There’s nothing wrong with riddley16.
The girls I’ve dated have actually been significantly quicker to tell me when somethings wrong. The guys I’ve dated bottled it in sometimes for a month before I even knew anything was up.
The wardrobe that is doubled is a pro with women.
7. nomorerunning97 says it’s sometimes harder to even get to the dating phase of the relationship.
Flirting with girls is so much harder (as a girl at least).